How did it all start?
And why so broad focused?? Children in Foster Care AND Homeless Kids AND Children Exposed to Domestic Violence AND... Animals?!?
People often ask how Share in the JOY began, and the truth is, it started small and with one simple idea. I thought it would be special to hire Santa to visit a foster family for Christmas. That one idea turned into our very first HoliJOY event in December 2022, when 34 kids at St. Jude’s Ranch got to experience the magic of the holidays in a way they’d never forget.
Before that first event was even completed, St. Jude’s asked if we could host the party again the following year, but this time for all 200 of the children they serve. That’s when I realized this was bigger than just a holiday celebration. This was the start of something that could truly change lives, and that’s how Share in the JOY was born.
While developing the vision, the mission grew. It became clear that the challenges kids face are deeply connected. My fiancée had lost her mom to domestic violence when she was a teenager, and understanding that heartbreak opened my eyes to how violence in the home is oftentimes related to other tragedies. Children escaping violence often lose their homes overnight and sometimes end up in foster care. Families without housing face the kind of stress that could lead to violence. At the end of the day, the kids are the ones who carry the weight of it all.
So we will support the children. The ones in foster care, the ones exposed to domestic violence and the ones who don't know where to call home.
As a dad, I wanted to show my own children what it means to lead with kindness and courage. When I told them about the vision and mission for Share in the JOY, my daughter stopped me with a simple question I’ll never forget:
“But what about the animals?”
"We are going to help children..."
"But animals can be lost, hurt by other people... and we adopted Charlie!"
It was in that moment that Share in the JOY would be created to support animals as well.
But she was right. Kids in foster care, kids escaping domestic violence, and kids without housing often have to say goodbye to the pets they love most. Those animals end up in shelters, and the children worry about them just as much as everything else. Their stories are tied together.
And so here we are. Share in the JOY serves children in foster care (including kinship and fictive kin placements), children exposed to domestic violence and living in shelters, children from families without stable housing, and the animals connected to their stories.
From a single Santa visit to life-changing programs and events, every step of the journey has been about one thing: making sure kids feel safe, seen, and supported. We work to remind them, and even the pets they love, that they are never forgotten.
And the name? My daughter's middle name is Joy. Inviting community partners, nonprofit partners and volunteers to Share in the JOY of working together to make a difference makes sense.